Inselaciunea prietenului – Intrebarea 2.?

Bine, stiu ca trebuie sa-mi dau prietenul cu siguranta, multumesc tuturor celor care mi-au raspuns ultima intrebare. In mod evident el controleaza si este cam tarziu despre pierderea prietenilor, avand in vedere ca le-am pierdut deja pe toate. El are toate parolele mele si eu

le vreau inapoi, indiferent ce fac nu pot sa le primesc. Ne-am pierdut virginitatea impreuna, FARA SPARTI. Si a spus ca nu a facut niciodata nimic inaintea mea, ceea ce consider o minciuna. Am fost expirienced inainte de care a fost greu pentru el, sunt sigur. Vorbim mereu despre viitorul nostru impreuna despre casatorie. Dar de fiecare data cand am incercat sa ma despartionez de el inainte sa ameninte ca ma santajeaza si sa-mi trimit prin e-mail imagini de mama si ce nu de chestii. (Stii.) Si doar m-am saturat. Are 16 ani si am cincisprezece ani. Si terminarea lui nu a fost o optiune. Hai sa o spunem asa, este IMPOSIBIL. Dar chiar as fi fericit cu vechea mea viata inapoi. Prieteni, Intalniri, propriile parole, FARA BLACKMAILING.

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Va rog sa ma ajutati, cum sa abordati acest lucru.

Multumesc foarte mult. : (Prietenul inselaciune – intrebarea 2.?

Vino curat cu mama ta. Lasa-i sa stie ca sunteti intr-o relatie abuziva (asta este, credeti-o sau nu) si ca doriti afara si aveti nevoie de ajutorul ei. Prietenul meu a fost intr-o situatie similara, iar ea le-a spus parintilor despre asta; nu stiti, fostul ei a trimis parintilor o scrisoare, in care detaliaza unele dintre experientele lor sexuale si alte lucruri personale tulburatoare, personale. Parintii ei se asteptasera la acest lucru si nu erau nu s-au suparat cu ea, au fost doar fericiti ca a fost in afara relatiei!

Asa ca urmeaza-ti ce s-a intamplat cu tine, primeste sprijinul de care ai nevoie (deoarece se pare ca nu ai mai multi prieteni, ai nevoie de sprijinul mamei tale chiar acum). Consilierea va poate ajuta, din moment ce el v-a rupt in anumite moduri. Copiati agenda de adrese de e-mail si pastrati-o privata; cand ai terminat, creeaza-ti un cont de e-mail nou si trimite-ti un e-mail prietenilor si anunta-i ce s-a intamplat si ca acesta este noul tau cont de e-mail. Pastrati-va parolele in secret.

Incheierea unei relatii este infricosatoare, este greu si se poate simti imposibil – dar nu este imposibil. Obtineti ajutor de la oamenii din jurul vostru si veti face acest lucru. Boyfriend Trucarea – Intrebarea 2.?

Acum ai aflat de ce sa faci poze goale cu tine si orice ar fi o idee atat de proasta. Nu mai face asta niciodata.

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Lasa-l sa trimita prin email imaginile daca doreste. Oricum, ar trebui sa ai o discutie serioasa cu mama ta despre toate acestea, oricum. In ceea ce priveste parolele si asa mai departe, schimbati-va e-mailul si orice altceva aveti pe internet. Blocheaza-i numerele de telefon.

schimba-ti toate parolele intr-o singura zi si fa-i ceva la care nu s-ar gandi niciodata sa incerce si sa vorbeasca cu vechii tai prieteni si sa vezi daca vor fi din nou prietenii tai si chestia de santaj cred ca este bluffin cum ar ajunge la mama ta oricum poti intercepta asta, dar oricum nu-ti face griji si schimba parolele inainte sa te desparti de el

Aceasta este o situatie difuza, dar primul lucru pe care l-as face ar fi sa merg la prietenii mei si sa le explic totul si sa le explic ca legatura dvs. pentru a scapa de el (va fi mult mai usor sa treceti prin toate acestea daca oyu aveti prieteni ) vorbeste cu mama ta despre tine si vezi ce spune ea, trebuie sa-i arati ca nu are controlul asupra ta.

Sper ca totul sa functioneze pentru tine. Mult noroc!

haide, nu te agita. daca este ur prima iubire, atunci nu ai vazut inca nimic. Tot ce trebuie sa spun, este daca vine cu adevarat in minte ur sa-l aruncati, apoi mergeti mai departe, faceti ceea ce intr-adevar iese din minte, nu pentru ca cineva a spus, in aceasta situatie pot sa va spun sa-l aruncati sau sa mergeti inainte cu el. trebuie sa te decizi pentru

tine. Suna ca odata ce vei scapa de el, vei putea sa-ti recuperezi viata, iar el te costa mult prea mult, deja. Cum sa faci asta? Scoate-i puterea !! Vorbeste cu mama ta – s-ar putea ca ea sa fie dezamagita, dar voi paria ca va fi chiar acolo cu tine, daca esti sincer cu ea.

Multa bafta!

evident, aceasta este o relatie oribila ..

. si poate ar fi trebuit sa te gandesti cat de mult i-ai dat de tine. acum platesti pentru asta. fotografierea? el are tot dreptul sa le arate … practic i-ai dat permisiunea. si virginitatea voastra .. bine imi pare rau, dar niciodata nu veti primi asta.

HEY YO! BOYFRIEND *****! DACA CITESTETI ACESTA **** ATI CITITI TOATE FIILE voastre ******* MAILS, **** DRAGA O RELATIE DESPRE CONTROLUL DUMNEAVOASTRA FARA ACUM DESPRE INCARCARE IUBIREA RISCULUI. DACA TREBUIETI MULTI DE UN ***** PENTRU A-TI INCEPE PICIUL IN STANG, INTAI **** NECETI DESPRE FETELE IN OMUL TAU DE VIATA. FACATI-TI-TI-TI-O, FA-TI-TI OAMENI SIGUR, DACA NU ESTE NICIODATA PROBLEMA, ITI FACA. ESTI TU.

Singura ta solutie reala este sa-i spui mamei tale. Cu ea in coltul tau, el va alerga. Asta nu va tine fotografiile de pe internet, dar iti vei reveni viata.

Sper ca mama ta sa te ajute.

*** Buna sunteti politia! **** El nu poate ameninta. data viitoare ai grija cu cine impartasesti fotografii sau secrete intime pentru ca asa ceva se intampla. jsut ignora-l. crezi ca o va face cu adevarat? faceti parole noi sa mergeti mai departe, nu vorbiti cu el, sa-l taiati, va primi pixul.

Trebuie sa spuneti parintilor dvs. ce se intampla, pentru a va ajuta! Ceea ce face este mai mult decat sa-i controleze legea, santajul este o infractiune grava.

stergeti toate profilurile si faceti altele noi pe care el nu le cunoaste daca nu functioneaza, permiteti-va mamei dvs. sa aiba parolele ur si lasati-o sa blocheze profilul respectiv si sa faceti un nou 1 daca asta nu functioneaza, atunci eu nu stiu wat 2 spun

sounds like a real jerk good luck 😉

Agree. Tell Mom. Tell DAD too. Get Dad to call little boy and dare him so send pix of his little darling around the world wide web.

He’ll go away.

Change the passwords

Just break up with him

Rebuild yourself up with God’s help

Get a harder man, or the police(:

get black mail on him and dump him asap

change all your passwords now

change ur password dear

I know it’s going to be really hard, but you have to come clean to your mom. Tell her what you have done (if you feel you can talk to her) and then tell her what’s going on…and that you dont want to be like this…but that he’s blackmailing you of sending pictures.. Tell her you want to change and you need her support…honestly, I see that as the only thing holding you back: the blackmailing stuff. Hopefully your mom is the type that wont go ballistic. Once you do that…completely lose touch with him and start over and LEARN FORM YOUR MISTAKES. Also, pray whatever you are feeling before speaking to your mom. Don’t be shocked if her eyes pop out, cuz your so young…be prepared and understand where she’s comming from…hopefully she’ll understand you. Once you do that, you can move on completely.

Oh sweetie…you’re dating an abuser.

He may have never hit you physically but he is abusing you verbally and emotionally. You NEED to tell your mother what’s going on. He’s threatening you with those pics as a way of keeping you with him and under ‘;control’; and you cannot allow him to bully you.

If you do not end this now, it will continue to escalate and you may end up eventually married to this jacka** because you’re afraid to leave him. Call a domestic violence hotline. Teen domestic violence is one of the most underreported crimes today.

Get out now!

Once you are away from this a**hole, your friends will probably slowly start coming back into your life and you will slowly start to heal, but you need counseling and your mom’s support. Tell her TODAY what has been going on. I think that she’ll probably want to throttle this little boy (H*LL, I don’t know you and I want to THROTTLE him) and will do everything in her power to protect you.

http://www.ndvh.org/educate/what_is_dv.h鈥?/a>

Go to that website and call them TODAY. They can assist you in what you need to do and help you with counseling services.

Good luck, sweetie and God bless!

Wait, if he owns your passwords, then can’t you just make new accounts of those same websites. And puh lease, haha guys for some reason talk about marriage too much. The last time a guy talked like that to me was when I was in Second grade and he was in fifth grade. But of course it never happened. You could tell an adult, and this guy should bug off for real. Everybody has their own life, and it’s not fair that he acts like that when you’re just his girlfriend! But remember, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!! Try to gain back your friends, somehow.

You got yourself in a bad situation. First thing to do is come up with a game plan. Where does he keep the pictures of you two, and can you get them back? What passwords does he have? You are 15 so he probably does not have access to any financial information. Make a list of everything that needs to be resolved and come up with a game plan. I have to guess we are talking about passwords to email accounts, myspace, etc, etc. Do you know them or does he just use them to sign on for you? If you know them make time to change them all to something you know all at once so he does not see it coming. Taking inappropriate pictures is something you should not have done. Getting them back especially if they are digital is very hard (sometimes impossible, once they go online anyone anywhere in the world can save them). My suggestion is come clean. Tell your mom and/or dad. They are not going to be happy but imagine how they are going to respond when they see pictures of you with no cloths on (or worse) on someone else’s My Space or even worse if your boyfriend emailed them to your parents. With a good game plan and planning you can comfort your boyfriend with your parents in front of his parents about all these issues and hopefully get back (delete) these pictures. If you have any evidence of him blackmailing you save it, give it to your parents so they can use it if the need to. You do not want the police involved but it might come to that. Sit down, write down everything you want to happen (get the pictures back, get your passwords back, etc, etc), find help (your parents!), and do it!

The only thing that i can tell you is that his age. I was once that age im 19 now and thing will slow down for him. He must have looks on his side then. and another thing is that he does it because he is young and just living life which is a average male anyway. But you need to tell him that he needs to slow down because he just might come to the one he wants to be with and she might end up cheating on him or just playin with his heart and he will be HURT. Take it form somebody who knows. If that dont work jus leave him alone. You can do better